Are we APPRECIATING that everything we do offers ourselves and the other person more value or repeatedly takes value from ourselves and others? Are we even attuned to whether the man is actually emotionally invested in US even if WE feel like we are emotionally.But no transmission had occurred. The man Rhoades had sex with, 22-year-old Adam Plendl, had not contracted the virus. Thats not a surprise, because Rhoades used a condom. And medical records show he was taking antiviral drugs that suppressed his HIV, making transmission extremely unlikely.Even if you had all the money in the world to buy all the nice clothes you wanted youd end up with a huge cost in your time, as time will need to be used up and spent to decide what to wear.John Piper @JohnPiper More by this author The Bible has a way of shocking us. If Americans could still blush, we might blush at the words, "Rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe.Follow Desiring God on Twitter Follow Desiring God on Instagram Follow Desiring God on. John Piper Follow John Piper on Facebook Follow John Piper on Twitter.Defendants in these cases were often sentenced to years sometimes decades in prison, even when they used a condom or took other precautions against infecting their partners. In 60 cases for which extensive documentation could be obtained, ProPublica found just four involving complainants who actually.The national tally is surely higher, because at least 35 states have laws that specifically criminalize exposing another person to HIV. In 29 states, it is a felony. None of the laws require transmission to occur.But, by then, he could have categorised her as one of many, depending on how shes showed up. If shes had sex EARLY but shes showed up as his one and only, then theres no problem for the woman the deal is already sealed.Until recently, criminal punishment was virtually unheard of for infectious diseases other than HIV. Federal and state officials have the authority to quarantine the sick to contain epidemics, but this power was typically granted to health authorities, who are versed in the latest science, not.